Kink & BDSM
Coaching with Polly is an invitation to explore your desires, deepen your relationships, and reconnect with your body — all through powerful, personalised sessions that go far beyond talking.
Curious about kink?
Perhaps you have always had a shadow side but you have felt too ashamed or afraid to reveal it?
Maybe you are curious how it would feel to let go of control with someone you trust completely?
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I can teach you the art of empowered surrender, where you actually hold the keys to your own release.
Or you might secretly long to feel in control, powerful, seen, desired?
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I can help you cultivate intoxicating dominance that is rooted in consent, safety, empathy and presence, not performance or clichés.
This is your invitation into a world where your ‘too much’ is just the start - where your secret desires and curiosities are encouraged, and celebrated. If you’re kink-curious, aching to explore things like dominance and submission, bondage, sensation and impact play, or power dynamics, and you want to know how to bring your fantasies to life safely and ethically, you are in the right place.
Ready to step into the shadows and explore your dark side?
BDSM & Kink (more detail)
With specialised training from Somatica® in BDSM and KINK (and years of personal experience in BDSM-friendly communities), I approach our work with both professional care and a rebel soul. Curiosity is the first step towards liberation. Whether you're taking your first steps into the world of kink or seeking to deepen your existing practices, I'm here to guide you through a journey of exploration, safety, and profound connection. Together we will dismantle shame and build a foundation of trust, consent, and exhilarating discovery.
In our sessions, your fantasies become our playground and every part of you is welcome. My coaching style is embodied and experiential, meaning we won’t just talk about your desires, we will gently invite them into the room. Through practical exercises such as role play, touch techniques, visualisation, and somatic (body-based) techniques to help you master attunement to your body and your partners , you will ll feel your confidence bloom. You’ll practice voicing your boundaries and desires out loud, and savor the electrifying liberation that comes from hearing yourself say “Yes, I want that.” We’ll also laugh and celebrate; kink is as much about joy, play and creativity as it is about intensity.
Above all, I hold absolute acceptance for you here. Nothing is ‘too weird’, too wild, or too vanilla, it’s all about what delights you. My role is to be your guide, safety anchor, and confidante as you navigate the shadowed corners of your desire.
How do i know if im kinky?
KINKY is simply any sexual act that feels taboo, for you.
Maybe you are living in a paradox where you: desire for surrender in a world where you’re always in control, or the urge to exert playful dominance when you’ve been taught to stick to the rules and stay in your narrow lane. I’m intimately familiar with the allure of the forbidden and the transformative thrill that comes from saying yes to parts of yourself you’ve kept locked away - this was my story.
In our sessions, your fantasies become our playground – and every part of you is welcome.
Ever had a “wild side” you were afraid to show?
Curious how it would feel to let go of control with someone you trust completely? I’ll teach you the art of empowered surrender, where you actually hold the keys to your own release.
Longing to feel utterly in command of your pleasure? I can help you cultivate an intoxicating dominant persona that is rooted in empathy and presence, not performance or clichés.
Kink AND BDSM Program:
We won’t just talk about your desires, we will gently invite them into the room. Through guided exercises, visualisation, and somatic (body-based) techniques, you will feel your confidence bloom. We will practice voicing your boundaries and desires out loud, and feel the electrifying buzz that comes from hearing yourself say “Yes, I want that.” It will also be a lot of fun: Kink is as much about joy, play and creativity as it is about intensity.
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Level 1
(Core)
Safe foundations in consent, confident communication, boundaries, fantasy exploration to uncover your unique core erotic themes and exploring the signposts to your deeper psychological and emotional needs, BDSM 101 and exploration of the kink menu.
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Level 2 (Expansion)
Building your kinky repertoire, Intermediate skills in sensation and impact play, deeper psychological D/s dynamics, and emotional attunement, D/s Archetype development, expanding and tailoring your pleasure menu.
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Level 3
(Mastery)
Advanced BDSM practices (tailored to your individual desires), exploration of D/s flavours in practice, confident erotic attunement, scene creation and development, mastery of power dynamics.
“Discovering my kinks was like finally coming home to myself”
I want this for you!
This program will teach you to; find the courage to step beyond convention, the safety to drop your inhibitions, and the skills to communicate and play in ways that fulfill you.
BDSM is not…
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BDSM is NOT selfish and it certainly isn’t - abuse masquerading as kink. Abuse thrives on fear, coercion, and harm, utterly devoid of genuine consent. BDSM, on the other hand, is built entirely around consent, trust, and mutual pleasure. While intense sensations, power exchanges, or even controlled pain might feature in BDSM encounters, every act is carefully negotiated beforehand, ensuring emotional and physical safety for all involved.
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BDSM isn't reckless, it's a clearly defined, intentional experience. Participants openly communicate their desires, boundaries, and limits ahead of time, setting explicit start and end points for each encounter to distinguish fantasy from reality.
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Crucially, BDSM is never about causing harm; it prioritises well-being, mutual respect, and emotional fulfillment above all. Unlike abusive dynamics, BDSM empowers everyone involved by offering continuous, informed consent - consent that’s enthusiastic, pressure-free, and freely revocable at any moment. Ultimately, BDSM provides an environment where adults safely explore their deepest desires, vulnerabilities, and pleasures, always grounded in trust, compassion, and mutual care - not coercion or fear.
