Coaching
Coaching with Polly is an invitation to explore your desires, deepen your relationships, and reconnect with your body — all through powerful, personalised sessions that go far beyond talking.
WHO I WORK WITH
Maybe you are tired of...
Passionless relationships, superficial sex, numbed-out intimacy?
Being stuck in a stressful job or in a constant state of overwhelm?
Feeling disconnected from your body, emotions, and pleasure?
Feeling too afraid to ask for what you want in the bedroom, (and in the boardroom) ?
Struggling to find (and keep) meaningful and fulfilling relationships?
Feeling frustrated by mismatched desires or secret shame?
With a unique blend of psychology, neuroscience and somatic therapy , I coach curious humans of all genders and sexualities from exhausted parents, overwhelmed professionals and burnt out business leaders to beautifully multifaceted individuals and couples with all types of sexual and relational issues.
“Be yourself because everyone else is taken”
Oscar Wilde
Whether you’re here to amplify the alchemy in the bedroom or the boardroom, your personal relationships, or simply explore new depths of self-expression, I'm here to challenge and inspire you to find the courage to;
Fall radically in love with your brilliant, messy, wild and unapologetic self and invite as much joy and pleasure into your life as possible!
Relationship Lab
Your desires, sexuality, and needs are not fixed; they’re dynamic, fluid, and beautifully human.
Coaching sessions with me happen inside my ‘Relationship Lab’. This involves the two of us building a mutually vulnerable two-way relationship - a safe space to ‘road test’ the skills of intimacy in real-time interactions, before trying them out in real life and where your consent and boundaries will always be respected.
Sessions are dynamic, intuitive, and responsive to what arises. Nothing will shock me! You are free (and encouraged) to share your deepest desires and most challenging feelings - knowing that they will only ever be received with love, empathy and compassion. As we play, I will offer feedback and guidance and together we will identify and explore your ‘growing edges’. My role is not to fix you, but to help you witness and shift your patterns with compassion - so that you don’t stay trapped in them.
My methods are founded on the beliefs that pleasure and play are the most direct paths to transformation - so even when big emotions arise, we will practice skills which are founded on joy, play and arousal. Occasionally, I might set ‘pleasure homework quests’ all of which are aimed to help you to expand your beliefs and skills around intimacy and integrate your erotic confidence into real life.
You will discover how to:
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Change existing habits and patterns that no longer serve you
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Uncover your true self
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Emotionally regulate yourself and be less reactive in difficult situations
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Read and use your body’s cues, intuition and emotional landscape to make better informed decisions
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Process and release suppressed emotions so that your body feels; lighter, in less pain, and more receptive to pleasure.
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Ask for what you truly desire in the bedroom and in the boardroom: and know what that is!
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Give and receive exquisite touch, expand your capacity for pleasure & become a masterful lover!
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Effectively repair challenging relationships and communicate your needs, boundaries and desires
What not to expect:
Sexual intercourse or any other sexual acts of any kind. If this is what you are looking for I can redirect you to an appropriate sex worker. This is a clothes-on therapeutic practice. Before starting any practical exercise I will always ask for your consent first for example if touch is something you want to explore - it can be explored over clothes and with full consent only.
Coaching Offerings
Virtual Sessions
Focused, powerful, and convenient exploration of intimacy, pleasure, and relational growth.ur services
In Person Immersive
Deep, embodied, transformative work that helps you fully integrate lasting change in your intimate life.
Couples
Individually tailored sessions (initially separate, then together) to nurture secure attachment, rekindle desire, and master conflict repair and communication skills.
Coaching Paths
Men
Maybe you’re a high-achieving professional who thrives in the boardroom but feels the disconnect in the bedroom. Perhaps you sense that something’s missing in your intimate relationships,you struggle with sexual dysfunction, or you find yourself frustrated by stagnant patterns - whether that’s navigating a sexless partnership, wrestling with secret desires, or simply craving a deeper, more magnetic presence with your partner.
If you’re tired of settling for less and ready to experience genuine intimacy, confidence, and the vibrant sex life you deserve, let’s start the conversation
